The War Within Our Hearts (Book Review)

From time to time I come across books that I wish existed when I was a teenager. Books that would have helped me develop my self-identity and answered many of the burning questions that confused my head. The War Within Our Hearts is one such book that I encountered recently. It’s filled with almost all the kinds of questions young adults have these days. And it gives the answers too, realistically from an Islamic viewpoint, without being preachy and overbearing. Today I don’t think there are any books on the market quite like this for Muslim teens and early adults.

A bit hefty, its 183 pages, the book is divided into two main parts; the first part outlines problems and challenges facing young people in today’s world whilst the second part presents solutions. Each chapter in the book comes with attractive titles, using the language teenagers use these days. So there is “In Da Club” which is a chapter on partying, “Who Dat?” which is a chapter about lowering your gaze and “”I’ve Been Thinkin’ About You” which looks at the importance of dhikr (remembrance of Allah). Other interesting chapter titles include “The Deadliest Weapon” which concerns guarding what we say (i.e. use of the tongue), “I Can’t Fight This Feeling Anymore” which is about suicide, depression and abuse and “See You at the Crossroads” which looks at why we must remember death.

Each chapter takes its flavor from its title. Issues, problems and concerns are examined in most cases from the young person’s point of view and also from the parent’s point of view. This lends a balance to the discussion.

Quotes from the Qur’an and Ahadith occur throughout the book. Stories from the life of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), his companions and the Prophets are used to illustrate a point and are seamlessly integrated into the text. A box at the end of each chapter provides helpful summaries of the main action points or reminders to note.



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However I do believe that there are a few areas the book could have improved upon. For one, there is a need for graphics, photographs, diagrams and other illustrations (for example, comic or manga) to help break up large blocks of text and provide visual interest. It’s true that in some cases a picture is worth a thousand words and young people of the Internet generation in which we live respond readily to visuals.

I wished there were more examples of the author’s experiences aside from the few that I read. I think the stories that are interspersed in the text really brought the message home that the authors, like readers had challenging times. But a book like The War Within Our Hearts also needs a great deal more examples of youth struggling and striving in varying situations. Results from interviews or surveys with Muslim youth could have added another dimension to the book.

I was surprised to find that the book did not have an index. Indexes are useful for quick referral on a subject.

This book is a must-read for all Muslim teenagers and interestingly, even adults into their late 20’s will find much within the pages of this book that would speak to them. There is a great deal in the book that would help bolster a young person’s self-esteem and self-identity as a Muslim. This is also the kind of book every teacher, counselor, imam and leader involved with youth should read.

I definitely recommend this as a book to initiate discussion in Islamic Studies classes within full-time Islamic or weekend Islamic schools. But I think the real benefit of this book can come from both parents and children in the home reading and discussing its contents together.

Title: The War Within Our Hearts

Author: Habeeb Quadri and Sa’ad Quadri

Publisher: Kube Publishing

ISBN: 9781847740120

Category: Non-Fiction

Reading Level: 13 and up

The Final Poem for the Day: A Child’s Prayer

Children making tashahud in prayer
photo by muslimpage

A Child’s Prayer

I sometimes lie awake at night,  

And wonder at the stars so bright,  

I dream about my future too,  

And the things that I will do.  


Soon the nation will count on me,  

I’m future, they all agree,  

And people depend on me somehow,  

Though small and timid I am now.  


So you and I, my dearest friend,  

Must stand together till the end,  

For we are one by Allah’s Grace,  

No matter what our creed or race.  


We must prepare ourselves today,  

While we journey on life’s way,  

So education, we must crave,  

From the cradle to the grave.  


So those entrusted with our care,  

Train us please and do your share,  

We’ll make you proud of us somehow,  

So waste no time and teach us now.  


We need your love and tender care,  

And your sincere and ardent prayer,  

So much there is to learn and see,  

For true believers we must be.  


‘O Allah, we do love You so,  

Give us health nad make us grow,  

Be with us each passing day,  

While we journey on life’s way.  


– by Mymona Hendricks  


SOURCE: Muslim Poems for Children by Mymona Hendricks. The Islamic Foundation (1991). Pages 44-45. 

This beautiful poem brings the month-long celebration of poetry for Muslim children to an end, AlhamduLillah.

A special thank-you goes out to the poets and authors who shared their works.

And a special thank-you to all the readers who stopped by to read these poems. Take time to share them with you children/students, inshaAllah.